Step #1. Donıt expect your mate to understand why you are so intrigue with John Madden or to use their terminology, ³that Video Game². Because trying to get them to understand J.M. is like trying to make you understand why they cry watching Victor on THE YOUNG AND RESTLESS or why it is necessary to spend all day getting your hair, nail and toes done. DONıT GO THERE !!!! Better yet, try to get them to develop an appreciation for the challenge the game presents. Try this, stop hogging the joystick and share. There are several Playstation I & II games that may be of interest to your mate. Games that challenge the mind such as the questions on ³Who Wants to be A Millionaire², to fun games as simple as Frogger. Donıt just buy it, toss it and then lock yourself in the room with the Madden Strategy Guide. Take the time to play a few rounds with your mate and kids, you may even like it! ----NOT!!! The point is, sharing and not isolating. You both share the television donıt you ? That doesnıt mean youıve got to like the same shows. WELL !!!!